BBWs and their larger brethren have been making money with adult websites for over a decade now. Take a look inside, and you’ll find just as many characters and gimmicks (and in some cases, drama) as you’d find in the wrestling business. In the 80s, Hulkamania ran wild. In the 90s, everyone who resented their boss wore an Austin 3:16 shirt. In recent years, millions of children are proud members of John Cena’s Cenation (or however he spells it). With every generation, the wrestling business has something fresh and exciting to make money with. In the world of BBW adult entertainment, however, only one gimmick consistently dominates the rest: feeding and gaining.
I’m not gonna lie and tell you that I don’t get swept up into this fetish, because I do. To see a gorgeous woman insist that she looks better in a fatter body is everything I’ve ever fantasized about, and to see one work her way up the scales is wildly erotic. In recent years, however, my stance on the subject has changed some, and it’s because of people who say things like this:
“hell i think the woman is beautiful the bigger she gets so id be lying if i said i didnt want to know if she is still packing on the lb’s but if shes not then i think the people who are paying good money in anticipation of a new trip to the scale video, should be informed and have the choice to jump to another active gainer. feeders are a huge part of the plus size community and deserve to be accepted as much as the rest. and as sad as it is when some one dies you still have to remember that that person had free will and made a choice and i for one respect it.”
This was a comment recently posted on that super-popular blog I wrote about someone well-known in the industry as well as the subculture itself. When you look beneath the grammatical errors, you’ll find an implication that women who engage in extreme feeding and gaining are just as interchangeable and replaceable as headlights on your car. If one of these girls stops gaining? Or just fuckin’ dies? No biggie, because this guy is simply going to find someone else to fill the void left behind…and then he wants respect.
I wonder if this guy is a father, and whether or not he’d give a speech like this to a 700 lb daughter who smoked and ate fried chicken all day.
This person does not represent ALL FAs, but sadly, he represents an alarmingly high amount. It’s difficult for me to read a comment like that and not take offense to it, because I know a lot of women who earn money in this line of work. Doesn’t matter if there is mutual admiration or hatred between myself and (*insert pay site girl here*), because they’re still people. Some of these people died way before their time. Two of them were friends of mine, and it fucking BURNS me to know that while I wept, several cock-jerking fap masters either shrugged their shoulders or got mad that the site was taken down before moving on and paying their $9.95 to see another girl devour two pizzas on her own.
Another dear friend of mine feared that she would be next. She recently weighed in higher than she’s ever done in the past, and she was worried that she was on her way to immobility and deteriorating health. Fortunately, I was able to interject before the situation spiraled out of control. One month after teaching her some basic yoga, I’m pleased to report that she’s 15 lbs lighter with improved strength and mobility. Thousands of men will probably shun her for it, but I won’t, and yeah, I’m a feeder. Her friendship is ultimately more important, and I want her to be around the next time I visit her neck of the woods for another fun dinner with her and her man.
Knowing that such a small thing was enough for her to change her life for the better, I urge ALL pay site girls to follow her lead. I’m not your father, I’m not your husband, and in most cases, I’m not even your friend. I’m not going to tell you what to do with your free time…but if something troublesome should come of your chosen lifestyle, the guys who flatter you and worship you will flatter and worship someone else if you decide to make the changes that my friend recently did. Are people like that worth the effort you put in? Feeding and gaining can be fun. And wildly erotic. But not if your friends have to bury you while guys like this take their lotion elsewhere. I’m a fan of feederism, but I’m also a fan of keeping a body strong. So, if you’re looking for a comfortable balance in order to stay healthy and enjoy this erotic practice, then by all means, contact me. I want to see you big and beautiful, and I want to see you strong.